A Personal Rant on “Victorious Living”

Posted on September 9, 2006 by Jenn

Okay, I’ll admit to being a little bit frustrated as of late by the seemingly increasing references to the happy, healthy, “victorious” life that is supposedly due to those of us who choose to follow Christ. Never mind the fact that it just doesn’t add up Biblically speaking. (Check out John 9 and the man who was born blind and healed “so that the work of God might be displayed in his life.”) It doesn’t jive with reality. Ask anyone whose child was killed by a drunk driver. Ask anyone whose loved one died of cancer (or any number of awful diseases they did nothing to deserve). Ask anyone who lost it all a year ago when Katrina hit. Ask anyone. Life does not verify - even contradicts! - the theology.

Simply saying the name Jesus (or even saying it the right way) does not mean that we win the grand prize of all Christianity - the Holy Bubble Suit complete with Teflon coating. So-called leaders of the church are doing us a disservice by hiding behind plastic smiles and picture-perfect family perceptions. If you claim to have no struggles or pain in your life, you are a liar. If you are a Christian and you make the same claim - or worse yet, give Jesus the “credit” for such a claim - you are misrepresenting the Gospel.

Why is it so hard for us to admit that we really are sinners and we really live in a rotten world? The Good News - the Gospel - is not that God raises us above all of this yuck. The Gospel is that He Himself walks with us through it, changing us along the way to be more like Him. And, at least for me personally, when I think about my life in those terms - on His terms - all that other stuff that is supposed to make me “prosperous” just doesn’t matter. I want more of Him, not more of anything else, and I trust Him to know what will transform me into His image.

I ask you neither for health nor for sickness, for life nor for death; but that you may dispose of my health and my sickness, my life and my death, for your glory….You alone know what is expedient for me; you are the sovereign master; do with me according to your will. Give to me, or take away from me, only conform my will to yours. I know but one thing, Lord, that it is good to follow you, and bad to offend you. Apart from that, I know not what is good or bad in anything. I know not which is most profitable to me, health, or sickness, wealth or poverty, nor anything else in the world. That discernment is beyond the power of men or angels, and is hidden among the secrets of your Providence, which I adore, but do not seek to fathom.

Ahhhh, thank you, Blaise Pascal, for voicing so eloquently what I want to scream from the rooftops today. Now that is victorious living.

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Comment by Reon

September 9, 2006 @ 10:11 pm

I knew a guy in college who told me that because of my faith, he was sure that God would bless me with a big house and nice cars. Never mind God blessing me with his love, mercy, grace, presence in life, peace that surpasses understanding. Nope. Nice cars and big houses.

I drive a used ‘95 Honda Accord with 190K miles on it (and no hubcaps), and live in a small 2BR/1BA apartment with the majority of my worldly possessions in a friend’s basement across town. If I were to honestly believe that God’s approval of me was evidenced by my material comfort level in life, I’d say I’m not doin’ so hot (or maybe God just disapproves of my husband). ;o)

I don’t dare say I have a miserable life, but it’s certainly not free of stresses, struggles and pains, either. Praise be to God! It’s during the times when my life is out of my control that I learn to depend on my Savior the most. Let’s face it, I tend to forget I need God when things are going well.

I have a frame on my desk at work with the following quote on it by Brennan Manning:
“May all of your expectations be frustrated,
May all of your plans be thwarted,
May all of your desires be withered into nothingness,
That you may experience the powerlessness and poverty of a child,
And can sing and dance in the love of God,
Who is Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.”

Thanks, Jenn, for the reminder not only to realize that we’re not free from suffering, but that we are called to “rejoice in our sufferings” (Romans 5: 1-5). And rejoice we can, because we serve a great God.

Comment by Corrie

September 11, 2006 @ 6:53 pm

Great post. This is a lesson God has been teaching me, especially lately. Pride really sets in when everything goes our way and we being to think it is because we are such great people and faithful Christians. We then look down upon those who don’t have it as good as us and we begin to judge them…”What are they doing wrong?” Well, life just doesn’t work that way. God has been merciful when I have least deserved it and when I “deserved”, according to my human perspective, (not that I deserve anything!) some pretty tragic things have happened. I began to see that all of this is from the hand of God and He just wants me to trust Him and rest in Him. He is using these things to teach me and to perfect me even though I don’t see it in the midst of whatever is going on.

Comment by Lynn

September 12, 2006 @ 8:43 am

“Simply saying the name Jesus (or even saying it the right way) does not mean that we win the grand prize of all Christianity - the Holy Bubble Suit complete with Teflon coating.”

This is true, contrary to much of what is taught on TBN, unfortunately.

It is these kinds of false teachings and notions that turn people into “Job’s comfortors.”

I think it is an almost automatic human reaction that when something bad happens to us, we wonder what it was we did to bring it on. The guilt that these outside ideas can bring at such times really augments that tortured soul searching. It’s sad.

Comment by Jenn

September 12, 2006 @ 11:29 pm

Thanks for the comments, ladies! I appreciate the feedback. I’m still a little uneasy when I push that “publish” button!

Reon,
That’s a great sign to have on your desk. I might have to “borrow” that quote sometime.

Corrie,
You’re so right. How you deal with this whole thing is really closely tied to the concept of grace. It changed my life when I realized that not only did I do nothing to earn my salvation, I do nothing to keep it (or as you said, to deserve it). I would have included more about that whole idea in this post, but this was just a quick “rant,” as I said. Maybe I’ll work on it for a later… :D Thanks for helping to keep the thought spinning in my head!

Lynn,
The warning about being “Job’s comfortors” is a good one. You you also make some good points about the implications of this type of theology. Thank God He is bigger than we can ask or even imagine!

Comment by Rong

September 14, 2006 @ 2:53 pm

Jen you rock! Brian is a lucky guy to have a wife as thoughtful as you.
The Word Faith movement bugs me to no end, but it’s suprising how well it seems to work for some people. Of course that always makes me question and fear how truly involved the Great Deciever is in this world.

Comment by Brian

September 15, 2006 @ 2:01 pm

Jen you rock! Brian is a lucky guy to have a wife as thoughtful as you.

Yeah, I know. :)

Comment by Jenn

September 15, 2006 @ 5:53 pm

*blush*

You guuuuys…
Thanks for the kind words. And Rong, thanks for reminding Brian - he needs it every now and then. ;)  But then again, sometimes I do, too!

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