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A Day of Near Misses – Addendum

Tuesday, May 27th, 2008

First, let me say that Brian made it safely to Atlanta for his business trip late yesterday afternoon. (Didn’t want to scare any of you who knew that!)

After we heard from Daddy that all was well, Mom piled the three kiddos into the van to head to Sonic for dinner. On the way there, from out of nowhere, three deer ran across the street in front of me. Thankful for my new tires, I braked as hard as I could brake safely on the wet road, but I managed to hit the third one in his back thigh as he attempted to jump over the hood. I think the deer will be bruised, but okay. He didn’t seem to have any trouble continuing into the field! A quick inspection of the hood and front of the van when we arrived at Sonic showed no damage to the van, but it did raise a few eyebrows from the lady next to me!

After all of this, I’m hopeful that I won’t need to create a “Near Miss” category! Again, I find myself thankful for the many ways that God holds us in the palm of His hand – some seen, most unseen. I just happen to be fortunate enough to be able to see more clearly for the last couple of days. Maybe one day such clarity will come without all the near misses! :D

A Day of Near Misses

Sunday, May 25th, 2008

Near miss #1: We discovered a worn hole in one of the tires on our van. It was obvious that it had been there for a while. Two days earlier I had driven a friend, her daughter, and A6 to Chattanooga for a field trip. (And on Wednesday I’m planning to bring the kiddos to Grandma, 2 hours away!) After 4:00 pm on the Saturday of Memorial Day weekend, we found that our tire shop was indeed open and could replace the tires before Monday when Brian leaves for a business trip.

Near miss #2: While I was watering the flowers last night, Brian heard a different sort of sound coming from basement. When it didn’t go away, he took a moment to investigate. He found water spraying into the basement, which is unfinished, but is used as the kid’s play area and for storage purposes. For some yet-to-be-diagnosed reason the pipe that brings water to the outside spigot had sprung a leak. I had only been watering for around 15 minutes, so even though it took a couple of hours to clean up it could have been so much worse. I think we acted fast enough to save the rugs. They are currently airing out in the garage. The only real casualty might be the Christmas tree. When it dries out completely, we’ll have to plug it in to see if the lights still work.

Near miss #3: While in the middle of the clean-up process, Brian walked outside to check on the kids, who were remarkably helpful, btw. They had been staying out of the way by playing outside. Brian steps outside and sees that they have resourcefully tied a jump rope between the two Power Wheels vehicles. He watches as one vehicle circles around the other, effectively making a noose around A8’s neck. Thankfully, no one was injured because of Dad’s quick reaction time. Needless to say, the jump rope has been banned from all future usage with Power Wheels vehicles!

Today, we are taking it easy and counting our blessings. We certainly have a lot to be thankful for!

Boys will be boys

Thursday, May 8th, 2008

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We were downtown last weekend at one of those downtown, festivally things when out of nowhere appears a late 60s Mustang fastback – with the hood up. S3 needed no encouragement to appreciate one of the finer things in life. The girls kinda liked it too.

Gas Woes

Monday, May 5th, 2008

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Rebecca is comparing gas prices this month. As you can see, gas here in Middle Tennessee costs around $3.45/gallon. I was lamenting this fact until I followed this link provided by Dorothy that compares US prices to international prices. Yikes!

Are you always on the look-out for the cheapest gas in your area? Visit this site, enter your zipcode and find the cheapest gas in your neck of the woods along with a handy map so you don’t use up even more gas trying to find the place. I’ve been told this site is updated daily.

How much are you paying? Add your price at the pump to the list over at Rebecca’s place.

Wherein I vent in order to get some sleep

Monday, May 5th, 2008

Have you ever had so much on your mind that it is simply impossible to settle into a restful sleep? At this moment, it is 1:15am and I have so many unrelated thoughts swirling around in my head that I can barely think straight.

[Warning: the next paragraph is where I retch every last "issue" out of me. Feel free to skip it entirely.]

Attempts to “take my thoughts captive” are evading me. There are laundry and dishes to be done, groceries to buy, a field trip to prepare for and arrange carpooling for. And then there’s the landscaping guy who might be coming this week to do some major work, but he hasn’t returned any of our calls in the last week and a half. There are multiple responsibilities with the Bible study group I’m involved with including preparing dishes and table decorations for the end of the year bash, as well as my regular weekly duties dealing with childcare for the group. And then there’s the fiasco that occurred at church this morning: conflict with no immediate resolution, having to settle for being misunderstood, being told that asking questions is the same thing as complaining, all leading to less than ideal circumstances in which we will probably have to verbalize some things to church leadership we have been hesitant to verbalize.

Throughout all these thoughts, interwoven and set to music (because that’s about the only way that I can memorize them), has been flowing Scripture:

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. -Phil. 4:6-7

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart. -Hebrews 12:1-3

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose….What, then, shall we say in response to this? If God is for us, who can be against us? -Romans 8:28, 31

Somehow, in the midst of this cacophonous symphony of thoughts and prayer and praise, I am directed back to the One who has grace for it all. The One who holds it all in His hand and is not threatened by my questions, but simply thanks me for bringing them to Him. The One who gently helps me release my death-grip on my day and gives me the gift of another one with the hope that I will give this one back to Him more completely, for His glory not mine.

Okay, it took me a while to get here (for those who keep track of such things, it’s now 2am). Thanks for listening. (Yawn.) I think I’ll be able to get a little sleep now…

On Birds and Bees…

Wednesday, April 30th, 2008

Hellllppp…

A8 has a tendency to embarrass easily and holds great disdain for the feeling of being in the spotlight. With that in mind, I’ve been thinking and talking with Brian about how/when to have The Talk with her. I suppose how much of The Talk is also on the table. I’m especially interested in finding some materials to use with her so that we can converse about the materials, rather than focusing on her. (Semantics, I know, but I think it might make a difference in her comfort level.) Any suggestions?

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(Larger version here.)

Welcome to Parenthood 101 … You Suck!

Wednesday, March 12th, 2008

Well, it has been quite an eventful 4+ days / nights for us. On Saturday, our son (our first child) was born. Labor was long and intensive for Reon, but we made it through and everyone has been doing well, for the most part.

I have way too many thoughts to write concerning the whole labor / delivery thing. WOW! Amazing, scary, exhausting, miraculous are all words that come to mind. However, this post is dedicated to the after birth phase…coming home for the first time as new parents.

So I was thinking, laughing and crying yesterday morning after our first night at home…an all-nighter due to feeding issues (which we are working through and are getting better). I was telling Reon that I’ve never felt about as incompetent as I did trying to get our crying son to sleep at 3:30 am when Reon is exhausted due to several nights of missed sleep and 14 hours of labor. Thus…this is where the name of the post came from. I realized how funny this whole learning process is and just how incompetent I am in trying to care for this infant who can’t speak my language.

I decided we are taking a course called ‘Welcome to Parenthood 101′ and that the first lesson was entitled ‘You Suck!’. I hope it comes across as funny, b/c I mean it as such. Nothing like a little 6 pound baby to make a grown man feel worthless. :)

However, I realize in the midst of this is God’s grace. We are cared for. He gives us the ability to raise his children and makes them resistent enough to handle our blunders.

Overall, we are doing well. Mom is getting some sleep today, so that makes Dad feel better. BTW, I’m not feeling down on myself, so I hope this post comes across with the smile it should have. I’m amazed at God’s plan for his creation and only desire your prayers as we continue to work our way through this course entitled ‘Welcome to Parenthood 101′.

Anyone care to tell me what the second lesson is??? ;)

What I did today

Monday, March 10th, 2008

Redbox = Longest. Hold-time. Ever. I called the service number to report a scratched dvd today and waited patiently for a rep to assist me. I was repeatedly assured (via pre-recorded voice) that there were “just a couple of other people they had to talk to” before they would be with my call or, if I preferred, I could leave a voice message for them. Wanting to speak with a real, live person, I waited. And waited. After an inordinate amount of time, I began to take pictures of my phone, which keeps track of the length of call. This is the last photo I took. Yes, if you click on the photo you can clearly see that at that point I had been on hold for one hour and forty plus minutes!

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I have never been asked to wait this long for any customer service representative for any company. At some point, it became a challenge. Did I have what it took to wait it out? In the end, my hungry children demanded their lunch, and I was forced to leave the voicemail. (If I was in management at Redbox, I’d be down-right embarrassed – making a mother choose between remaining online for the next available person or feeding her children!) The recording I heard promised a prompt return of my call. I’ll keep you posted. I’m wondering how they define “prompt”…

More snow pics

Friday, February 29th, 2008

Meant to have these up yesterday for Joe(heh heh) but the day got away from me.

I was able to spend a little time outside with the kids after work but it didn’t take long until my hands were numb. Jenn was commenting on how as kids they would play for hours, come in until their clothes were barely dry and then go back out for more. I remember doing the same thing but if I tried that now I’d need a week to recover.

But we are thankful for the snow. And I hope that Kathy and others who want it get some before the season is done.

The much played-in and tracked-up back yard

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Snow – not just for breakfast anymore

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Nothing like a stream in wintertime

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Ain’t they sweet?

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Finally, some snow

Wednesday, February 27th, 2008

Some of you northern folk may scoff but a 3″ snow down here in Tennessee is nothing to sneeze(or shiver) at. But didn’t we have twice as many snows that were twice as deep when I was a kid? Or is that my 40yo brain playing tricks on me again? No matter, we’ll just enjoy this one while we have it.

The picture below is off our back patio last night and the snow is still falling. A little fuzzy cuz I took it sans tripod but not too bad. You can click for a slightly larger version.

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